Has many people know I start it off writing relationship articles way back in 2009. I start it off on Instagram reaching about 75 million followers. At that time that was actually pretty substantial. But getting burnt out doing it alone especially I let it fall and let my numbers dwindle. For some reason this year I felt a whole new burst of energy to start back my Instagram page. Wow. It was a whole new kingdom. I mean you didn’t even need to have a degree to talk about what you want to talk about. You could say whatever you wanted just like you are a professional. And photoshopping was on the whole different level. Yet I still feel the interest to get back on to put in my thoughts about relationships. I was doing pretty well and I have been watching TikTok throughout the pandemic not thinking that maybe I should join in because people could probably use some relationships advice during the pandemic.

It wasn’t till the beginning of this year I believe that I just felt the urge to bring my work back online. That’s when I had the opportunity to shift gears a little bit and find out information about this trio, which is Justin, Hailey and Selena. I knew what was going on throughout the years, but diving deep and really see what was going on is when I realize how crazy this trio situation really is. It seems to loop and loop around and around. But there is a follower of mine out there that asked if I would write an article about a yo-yo relationship. And although I know, I have written several articles that were published about a yo-yo relationship. I don’t have the time to go sorting through to find them.

So what I thought I would do would be to combine this trio because they certainly do have a yo-yo relationship and explain how many people are living with a yo yo relationship. So for those who don’t know what a yo-yo relationship is, let me explain. It’s basically when you’re in a relationship where you’re feeling as they love me, they love me not. It could also be, I love them, I love them not. It can also be, to the point where you might even say, I hate you, I love you. And that’s where I believe Mr. and Mrs. Bieber are at.

Why do I think so? First off you see their faces. First it was Justin who always had an angry boo-boo face on. And more recently you see Hailey with an angry boo-boo face. Secondly, we all know that Justin needs his time out without Hailey, and Hailey has excepted this behavior. We have heard and seen of things Justin has done to Hailey that haven’t been so nice. Slamming the car door on her, skating away from her so quickly without a care where the poor girl fell. Telling her on a live not to touch him. These are just a couple of examples that would make a person question their love as well as question if the person they are with loves them.

So when this person is nice, you think to yourself, I love them. Yeah, they’re sweet. I want to be with them forever, maybe even have a baby with them. And let me say this goes both ways for Justin and Hailey or any relationship. Then there’s the time that they’re brutally mean, and you say to yourself, I can’t take them, I don’t want to be with them anymore. They’re mean to me. You might even say I want to leave, I want someone else. But because it’s a constant swing of up and down. it keeps you in a confused state. And I believe from the research am doing, and my sources, that’s exactly what’s going on between Justin and Hailey.

I believe that this is Justin’s personality. I believe that he treated Selena the same way. It’s almost like when the persons good they’re so extremely loving and caring. But when the person is bad, they’re horribly disgusting. And this can drive you to be so confused, as well as you don’t know if you should leave them or not because when their good they’re amazingly good. But when they’re bad they can be horribly bad, and you are so confused you don’t know if they are good or bad. So most likely in many relationships we end up staying longer than we should because of the good. For some reason we want to believe in the good.

I’m not here to bash Justin, Hailey, or Selena. I’m just explaining what a yo-yo relationship is, and why people stay. This is not just for this trio. This is for anyone in a relationship that sounds like what I just explained. It’s unhealthy and if you don’t put a stop to it, it just continues. And this is what we are seeing is two people which is Justin and Hailey in a cycle of I love you, I love you not. Yes there are things that have Justin stuck in this relationship. As well as the witchcraft, the manipulation, the substance-abuse, and a person who doesn’t or may be afraid to be alone. Stays!

A yo-yo relationship in the long run is very unhealthy and most definitely comes to an end. It’s a form of abuse and it can make it a person depressed. Which I truly believe from what I hear and what I see that both Justin and Hailey are depressed. I’m not there, Dr, so I’m only going by what I hear from my sources and what I see. And I’ve seen over five years now of chaos and not in a good way. And because Justin doesn’t want to let go of Selena and Selena doesn’t want to let go of Justin. It makes this marriage a trio which is a whole other topic.

So how do you get out of a yo-yo relationship? And should you get out of a yo-yo relationship? All I can say is that if you’re not happy in any relationship that is an unhealthy relationship and in the long run will bring you much heartache if it isn’t already. So how do you stop this up-and-down relationship? It might be a good thing to see a therapist. But then seeing a therapist, you have to be really truly willing to change. the most importantly, you have to truly love the person you’re with that you’re willing and wanting to change. Saying to yourself that you don’t want to be alone or being in denial that this person does really love me. You really got to step out of the relationship with a clear mind and put your thoughts together. Next look at your relationship and ask yourself does this person truly love me? Am I happy with this person? Does this person make me happy?

I am sure that you’ve heard this 1 million times but I bet you haven’t done it and if you’ve done it it doesn’t last very long. But I’m gonna give you a little homework for those in the situation. Write a list of all the good that this person does, you’re with, that you love. Write a list of all the bad things that this person does. Then I want you to read the list. What side is longer? The happier side? The more miserable side? Fold this paper now and keep it with you and when you’re feeling unsure I want you to take this paper out and look at this list. If you have to add to the list all means add to the list. But look at this list frequently because within this list you have your answers.

You only have one life you don’t want to live your life miserable for any reason. I wrote this awesome article that was published. It was called, “are you living or simply existing” I think it was. It was one of my favorite articles that I’m going to pull it up and post it.

Do I hear from my sources that Hailey and Justin are deeply in love? I hate to say this, but my answer is no. I do think they have a commitment to each other and that’s why they stay together. And I do think that the yo-yo relationship that they have contributes to their commitment and staying. But does that mean that they have a healthy relationship? Or is it if they’re afraid to move on? Justin because he’s afraid to be alone, and I believe from what I hear that Hailey doesn’t want to look like the loser to Selena. But if Justin and Hailey both are unhappy, they both are alone and losing.

MUCH LOVE ♥️