How to Please Your Woman Sexually (Step by Step)

If you care about your woman I'm sure you would love to make her feel wonderful during love

making and end with a great big orgasm. It would be even better if she would have multiple, boy you would be the man. How? It's simple. When you go down on your woman it is nice to lick, you can ask her where her spot is and what feels best, that is fine. Once you find her spot lick, slowly suck gently and find which method she likes best. Once you know she is excited, don't go down, and move around, or change motion. Keep up the same rhythm, and stay on that spot. After your lady has climaxed, don't stop, keep going softly but with the same rhythm, same place. The area is still sensitive, being able to allow her to flow into another orgasm. If you continue properly she should be able to have at least three or four orgasm, one after another. Barbara Jeanne xo

The Way to Make Love: It’s Important to Keep Your Partner Wanting You

People see sex in the movies and think wow I wish that was me, but to them it seems far-fetched and

an illusion. You meet someone and if there is chemistry somewhere down the line you two will likely end up having sex. If

it happens on the first night, best bet it wasn't that good. So first thing I like to say, waiting is worth the wait to have more

meaningful sex that has a better chance to turn into a relationship. If you do become a couple the sex is fun and plentiful,

which keeps you wanting more. As time goes by we tend to become a bit lazy. Quickies are spontaneous, but you always

need good old fashion love making for a relationship to survive. You can have a hot sweaty sex with a deep passionate

kissing and fondling, or soft sensual touching and kissing. Both are considered love making. Couples tend to jump in bed

not thinking what they are wearing or their behavior. Many don’t think these things are important. Ladies, men are very

visual. They care more about seeing and touching you, and you being confident enough to allow them. Men, women need

foreplay, so please don't get in bed stroke their backs and assume they are wet enough to try to stick it in. I am guessing that

they are not wet at all. So men, please take the time to find your partners hot spot and learn to get good at it. Ladies, last

thing, if you don't like to go down on him, learn to like it because he does. With two satisfied customers it will keep both of

you coming back for more. This helps you achieve a better chance for a long lasting relationship. xo BARBARA JEANNE

Being Loved For Who You Are (Makes A Lasting Relationship)

When do you know you have found the right person? I probably would say when you can totally be

yourself. Yes you want to look nice, be well mannered, but most important you want to be who you are. It is safe to say who you are with is the same person a week from now, who you will be a month from now, and so on. When you can laugh and enjoy the person and not think you have to put up a front, this is a good start. If you feel you have to say all these little lies, this is not good. You should be you, the person your family sees, your friends see. Now if you both can get in sync with this method, and you are accepting and liking each other for whom you are, thing are on the right path. A healthy relationship is a couple who can laugh, be goofy, and not judge one another. Chemistry and looks are important but it is how they make you feel that takes it over the top. You can have someone that is handsome or hot and it’s important but it’s even better that they are just as beautiful on the inside as well. You have to take time to get to know the real person and eventually you well and sometime it’s too late. You have fallen for a person who becomes someone that you did not meet but that is the chance you must take for love. Sorry to say more so if you are already married with kids. Take time and say to yourself, does this person make me feel comfortable, does this person seem like they truly care for me and last would this person be here by your side when you need, if the answer is yes, this is a great beginning and a person worth continuing a future with. If your answer is no, keep looking. Barbara Jeanne xo

Do We Know How To Be a Good Friend

When you call your friends, family or maybe just someone to talk, is it to see how they are doing? Or do you have a hidden agenda, which is to talk about you. Take time to see if you are doing this. When you call people take note, why are you callling them. Are you calling them because you have relationship troubles, a bad day or need to vent for some reason. Do you really want to know how they are doing. Truly concerned? Someone very wise once told me, people call to talk about themselves. Very rarely do they call to see how you are doing. Since then I've taken notice and he was absolutely right. So I make it a conscious effort to call to see how the people i call are doing. A relationship of any sort is give and take. Not take take take. Thats why so many people say it is so hard to find a good friend. Just a thought xo barb

A Song With Such A Powerful Message

Melissa Etheridge wrote a beautiful song in the 80's, and when I heard the words it amazed me. It is such a simple song with simple words, with such a powerful statement. If you don't like what you see, you don't have to look at me and basically if you do not like what you're hearing you don't have to listen. Why do so many people get involved in others people’s lives? Sometimes so much that the get consumed by another person. We need to concentrate what’s on our plate, what we have going on in our own lives. If you are hurting someone else, just because you're bugged because that person is simply doing their own thing, you need to see why? Leave the person be, you do your thing, let them be to do theirs. That is why we live in America; we have freedom of speech and expression. Unless it's truly hurting you physical just don't look. xo

Give as Much as You Receive

 SO MANY OF US REACH OUT 2 FRIENDS 4 COMFORT & SUPPORT, BUT R U MAKING SURE THAT U R GIVING AS MUCH AS RECEVING. NOT 2 B BOLD,

BUT I C SO MUCH SELFISHNESS. IF WE CAN NOT GIVE, HOW R WE SUPPOSE 2 MAINTAIN A RELATIONSHIP OF ANY SORT. WE NEED 2 LOOK AT OURSELVES & C. BEST WAY, EVERY NIGHT ASK YOURSELF HOW MUCH DID U GIVE & RECEIVE. C HOW BALANCED II IS