Party Time for Justin(what the f is going on?)

I just wanted to recap the last few days, maybe the last week. When Hailey came back from Paris, everyone believed that there was going to be some kind of separation, and it wasn’t. As I told you before he has an album dropping soon. As soon as he feels confident that the album will do all, he’ll drop it. But he’s definitely out and about being seen. And he’s having a blast which is absolutely fabulous to see that.

As I said, before, I believe that, Justin wants to do his music at its own time, slide in on other people jamming or playing like he did at the party. But I don’t believe he is ever going to do a full set in a concert. I don’t believe he will tour again unless he’s in desperate need of money. And he’s talking about the residency, which I don’t even think that he will make that. Because the residency while you are active, it’s pretty grueling. I think Justin is happy, just regaining his youth.

When Justin popped out hugging on Hailey with the wedding band I think that everybody was thrown back a bit, including Selena. It seems as if he wears his wedding band has all of his other pieces of jewelry which is optional. One other thing that I have noticed is where Hailey was always in for throwing a big smile as she was happy and in love for the paparazzi, from the looks on her face for the last several weeks, or months, she’s now with the big boo-boo face. I posted a set where they were holding hands and it’s almost like she didn’t want to hold his hand. And another post he seems to be dragging Hailey like she didn’t want to be there. Well who would want to go to a party when you date of going to bail and be the center of attention all night. I can see where fans might think it’s cute to be called to stage to get a kiss. But as a relationship counselor, no girl wants to spend her night without her date. And why do I think that this goes on because she allows this behavior. If you allow any pattern, it’s hard to break.

Since Paris, Selena has kept rather quiet. And what I hear, as I said before is, she is regrouping herself in the thought of not being a single woman any longer. She had a good inkling that someone might be coming back her way and making good for what he’s been saying the last five years. But once again it did not happen. With everything going on in the world, especially the war, it gives her a good time to lay low and get herself together. Mind you she’s always busy. But she’s done that purposely, to keep herself busy. For one her single came out, and in Paris she was glowing. Selena seemed to really be taken care of herself and looking absolutely fabulous.

So once again, this cycle continues. People asked me how long was his honeymoon going to last between Justin and Hailey and I said a couple weeks. He’s already displaying his famous Selena tattoo proudly. But there are several more tattoos that Justin as gotten for Selena. And the forever tattoo that he got for Hailey, he reposted it on Selena’s birthday. We are going to do a tattoo post and article for members only. We hope to see you there 🩷

Why Didn’t Hailey Go to Halloween Party? Kind of Sad 😞

I just wanted to jump on and give you guys a quick article. Justin attended the Halloween party of the year that Cindy Crawford’s and her husband Rande Gerber hosted. All the celebrities came out to celebrate Halloween at the Casamigos party. Justin attended, looking very happy and having a ball. But his baby girl Hailey was missing. Nowhere to be found. Justin was laughing, dancing, mingling, he even made his way up to the DJ booth.

It’s awesome to see Justin having such a good time. Although, as a woman, and a relationship counselor, I find it very hard that it would feel good as a wife to be left home. And I don’t say that in a bad way, or in a mean way. I know that she could’ve been with a million people, doing a million different things but the only thing and the only place she would want be is at that Halloween party with Justin.

I heard from my sources that the reason why Justin didn’t bring her was because they fight many times during parties. And he wanted to enjoy himself as well as Justin feels that he has the right to do what he wants as a man. But when you’re married, you are a couple. That means it’s you and your wife for the rest of your life. Yes, you are an individual with your own likings, your own doings, and your own interests. But leaving your wife home and going to a major Halloween party has got to be a shitty feeling. And I sympathize and have empathy for Hailey.

The only thing that I do not get is how magazines have become endorsements. The first day that this party was on all the publications it was about the Casamigos Halloween party that Rande Gerber, and Cindy Crawford hosted. Now keep in mind as I said, before Justin did attend, and he was in the pictures that came from the Getty images. He, along with all the other attendees were named, and pictures were taken.

This is where magazines are now endorsements. Hailey who did not attend this huge party was not included in any of the articles from this party. Yet almost a day later there is an article just about Justin, but more so the article is about Hailey. What did Hailey have to do with his party? Well, this article somehow ended about Hailey’s Rhode line and her YouTube show. What she wore and how she was in a vampire costume and had the Halloween spirit. When I first clicked on vampire costume that she was wearing, it brought me to her skincare line. I was a little confused so I clicked on it again and it brought me to her skincare line again. So I sent it to Ki and we did it again and it sent us to her instagram page. But she blocked me. So I couldn’t see. Which I’m fine with that.

The point being is why did his Halloween party turn out to be an endorsement of what Hailey Bieber is doing. Was it that she was hurt, maybe embarrassed? There was no reason given why he left her home. Especially last year it was weeks of the Halloween spirit for Hailey Bieber. Baldwin. In conclusion, I’m just wondering why they didn’t have a spread on the people that were there and what their significant others or the children were doing. Why was it so important to have an article what Hailey was doing for the month? Just a thought. 🤷🏻‍♀️

The Trio in Confusion🤷🏻‍♀️

People keep asking over and over exactly why does Justin look happier, as well as why did he say…Where’s my baby girl the other day as they were walking? They don’t understand why or how Justin can come out looking a little bit happier, a little bit more bubbly, And definitely playing it up for the cameras. Do you see there’s been many more cameras lately with Justin hamming it up. And Hailey seems to be taking the quiet route this time around. So why the change?

Sources says that Justin realizes that his popularity is dropping, and although he acts like he doesn’t care, he cares, extremely! Especially when his new music is going to drop sometime in the near future. Sources say that he’s waiting for his popularity to increase from the negativities that he’s been getting all around. Don’t get me wrong he still absolutely adored by many. But between him, not taking care of himself, looking like he’s always under the influence of some thing and looking miserable with his wife his popularity seems to have dropped. Justin wants to feel secure with his fame to be able to sell his album and of course he’s hoping to get some more number ones. He’s afraid by the backlash he’s been getting lately that his music and himself won’t be as welcomed as he usually is to people.

So where Hailey was the one always calling an agency most of the time it would be backgrid, to stage them, looking happy and in love. But Justin did such a amazing job of acting miserable, will he be able to keep up the charade? When they go out, it’s as if they’re taking a little mini photo shoot. But it always tended to be a flop. So now it seems like Justin is smiling a bit more and Hailey has the boo-boo face on. So what’s going on? With this couple, trio? I’ve never seen a couple looking like they’re falling in and out of love as much as these two. But why? Is it because there’s the third person that’s never left this relationship or was it the third person was the main character in the scenario, but the understudy somehow took the main characters role and messed everything up. But what I hear what you see for the cameras is not exactly what’s going on behind closed doors.

Back to what I was saying… It wasn’t messed up for the understudy, but it seem to make things way out of whack for the two main characters. And I’m hoping you know who are the main characters. For those who don’t that would be Justin and Selena. I put up several post this week And I would like to explain them. It seems that Selena’s friends have come to her side to uplift her, but why? Well, I heard from a very good source was there was no mistake. Was Selena putting on her song, Justin putting on his video with Sza, as well as all the codes that Selena left in her single soon video. Because, from what I heard, she may have had the idea that Justin was coming back her way. Oh, but we all know that it wasn’t going to be that easy.

So there was a big choice to be made, stay and promote your album, because it would look very messy to drop an album while you’re going through a divorce. So here Justin comes with a new wedding band and a big smile and his baby girl by his side. But now she seems to be with the boo-boo face these days. So why was it just a few weeks ago for the longest time they would have to call the agency maybe one maybe two photographers will come out. And all you hear is a simple click, a couple clicks. But all of a sudden this past week so there’s clicking all around, paparazzi’s all on top of them. Even Hailey has people asking her to take a picture with her. But it’s an illusion. I was at the Wendy Williams, when Justin first came out, and nobody knew who he was, nobody wanted him on the show. But Wendy Williams was nice enough and said OK I’ll have Justin on my show, but the problem is is that nobody knew who he was. So no girls showed up to scream at him, so she had to have her team go rally up a bunch of young girls. Sure you’ve heard this before and he kicked and spit on her staff. Yes he was young but he was a little rebellious boy., and some things don’t seem to change. I was supposed to get some words with him, but after what I saw I opted out.

People, so many people have asked, is what they’re showing real, PR, or is Justin confused? So I looked into it and I found out that it’s probably all 3. He did not have some kind of epiphany and all of a sudden to grow this undying love for Hailey, sadly. But I hear he doesn’t want to be alone. He like that she’s there when he’s done taking his time out away from her. I do think that’s sad. But I do think Justin’s also confused. He has a person he’s deeply in love with and he has someone who he is committed to as well as loyal. Until he figures out what he’s heart truly wants, there’s going to be this trio.

I do want to add that I know that Selena says she’s happy with where’s she’s at. She’s grown into a beautiful woman, who is very respected in the industry. But I do think she feels as if she has unfinished business. And she does. She had the man who asked her to marry her pretty much ripped out of her life. If it was done by his doing I would let this be. But from so many sources I have heard, he was under the influence of recreational medication, and shouldn’t of signed anything. Especially not a marriage certificate. And how they did it is what is so upsetting to me. To manipulate Justin into this life, instead of helping him to clean up and get himself together. So that he could make his own decision of who he wanted to be with. Ki and I do hours and hours of research to find out the truth and it’s f hard.

If anyone wants to know why Ki and I are a bit hard on Hailey is because from what we’ve learned is that they took that right away from Justin when he was sick. But as a relationship counselor I do know people in love do crazy things. I don’t want to pick on anyone I just want to tell you the information that we find to be true and accurate. And I can’t stress enough how many hours a day we put into doing this. People actually ask and want the truth to come out for some reason people think their story needs to be told. The true story. I believe that they all have their niche in this world and we don’t all do the right thing all the time. But messing with the fate is messing with Gods work. And in the end I hope things come out exactly how they should be.

Power Couple? Really? Pt 1

Justin and Hailey have been trying to become a power couple since the day they got married. The problem was nobody knew who Hailey really was. Now, don’t go all crazy. I’m not saying, by any means, she didn’t have some sort of following. I’m just saying that she didn’t bloom till she was married to Justin and that’s a fact. They thought that Selena and Justin were going to be the power couple, but Selena wasn’t really feeling what Justin’s camp wanted of them. So Selena already had dipped out bringing Justin with her. As I said before they didn’t like that so Plan B came into action. Plan B was Hailey. And she was absolutely thrilled to be second choice.

Most people wouldn’t be exactly thrilled. But when you’re looking for the fame and the money, and being with the superstar, and there is a pretty cute boy., that definitely helps. She already had a tremendous infatuation with Justin, and Selena. Let’s not get off track because I’m going to try to keep this rather short. So you have a couple and one of them is very much on board to be a power couple. Well, the other one really couldn't give a crap. And I am guessing you know which one is which. But the problem is one bailed on his tour, and hasn’t been looking well in the public’s eye. Of course, we wish Justin the best. He just hasn’t really done much to win the popularity of his fans lately.

Ki, who works really close to me, is fabulous in helping me do research, and just finding little tidbits to add to the information that I get from my sources. I have to say she’s been absolutely 💯 fabulous. She has actually seen comments, where people were still asking if they were going to get their money back from the ticket that they purchased from the tour that Justin had canceled. As I said before, he never apologized, he never addressed the situation. I have medical issues as well as lupus where I get IV I G infusions monthly, and I still would have a moment to apologize to my fans who I left, completely stranded and hanging.

But Justin feels that he doesn’t owe anybody anything. He feels that he performed for them and that’s what his fans paid for nothing else. He doesn’t realize that the fans and the people who are still rooting for this man are the ones that keep him relevant. Relevant is what Justin and Hailey are striving for right now because Justin is going to release music and he’s actually a little nervous about how his music is going to be received. Before he really showed everybody that he really didn’t give a shit about his fans, because I honestly think he didn’t care. I think he became a bit cocky honestly. For goodness sake, he puts himself on the level of Michael Jackson. Michael Jackson had his own style of dancing, and his own way of singing, he didn’t even need a choreographer. He just did his own thing, while his brothers were behind him doing the moves that the choreographer had made. One of the things that Michael Jackson also didn’t need… was a swag coach. Because Michael Jackson, well he had his own swag going on. But let’s keep it going.

I want to keep this very short, but when you’re in the spotlight, it’s very hard to always do the right thing. But many people are just good people and do the right thing. They don’t just do the right thing when they have an agency following them around to make them look like a good person or look like they’re in love or on a day-long walk like they’re a power couple. Because if they truly are a power couple like Beyoncé and Jay-Z, they don’t flaunt their business. In fact, Beyoncé wanted to keep her life very private for the longest time, and did. If you come out, all of a sudden trying to look like you’re a husband in love he treats his wife with such joy and happiness meanwhile, you’ve looked miserable most of your five years of marriage people won't buy it. Regardless, you have an agenda so you need to call an agency to make you look like a good person.

You have to remember something, especially in today’s society, and social media. Someone’s always there to see, to film, and to click away and snap a picture. And that tells the truth. Justin has a pap on him, and the photographer did not capture one picture of Justin giving the homeless man money. If I was blessed enough to have way more than I needed, I could surely give the man more than five dollars. So for Backgrid to say, Justin was so generous to give the homeless man five dollars he should be ashamed of himself. Backgrid only says exactly what you want them to say, and what you want people to see. They’re just the middleman. Everything is set up prior to them posting.

So wherever that homeless man is today I hope and I’m sure that God is watching out for him. And I hope that there are better people out there that would spare him the five dollars. Or even more. Because the truth of the matter is, Justin did not give him five dollars, not a penny. And I find that truly sad.

Much love ♥️

The Biebers Yo Yo Relationship! (Many of us have it)

Has many people know I start it off writing relationship articles way back in 2009. I start it off on Instagram reaching about 75 million followers. At that time that was actually pretty substantial. But getting burnt out doing it alone especially I let it fall and let my numbers dwindle. For some reason this year I felt a whole new burst of energy to start back my Instagram page. Wow. It was a whole new kingdom. I mean you didn’t even need to have a degree to talk about what you want to talk about. You could say whatever you wanted just like you are a professional. And photoshopping was on the whole different level. Yet I still feel the interest to get back on to put in my thoughts about relationships. I was doing pretty well and I have been watching TikTok throughout the pandemic not thinking that maybe I should join in because people could probably use some relationships advice during the pandemic.

It wasn’t till the beginning of this year I believe that I just felt the urge to bring my work back online. That’s when I had the opportunity to shift gears a little bit and find out information about this trio, which is Justin, Hailey and Selena. I knew what was going on throughout the years, but diving deep and really see what was going on is when I realize how crazy this trio situation really is. It seems to loop and loop around and around. But there is a follower of mine out there that asked if I would write an article about a yo-yo relationship. And although I know, I have written several articles that were published about a yo-yo relationship. I don’t have the time to go sorting through to find them.

So what I thought I would do would be to combine this trio because they certainly do have a yo-yo relationship and explain how many people are living with a yo yo relationship. So for those who don’t know what a yo-yo relationship is, let me explain. It’s basically when you’re in a relationship where you’re feeling as they love me, they love me not. It could also be, I love them, I love them not. It can also be, to the point where you might even say, I hate you, I love you. And that’s where I believe Mr. and Mrs. Bieber are at.

Why do I think so? First off you see their faces. First it was Justin who always had an angry boo-boo face on. And more recently you see Hailey with an angry boo-boo face. Secondly, we all know that Justin needs his time out without Hailey, and Hailey has excepted this behavior. We have heard and seen of things Justin has done to Hailey that haven’t been so nice. Slamming the car door on her, skating away from her so quickly without a care where the poor girl fell. Telling her on a live not to touch him. These are just a couple of examples that would make a person question their love as well as question if the person they are with loves them.

So when this person is nice, you think to yourself, I love them. Yeah, they’re sweet. I want to be with them forever, maybe even have a baby with them. And let me say this goes both ways for Justin and Hailey or any relationship. Then there’s the time that they’re brutally mean, and you say to yourself, I can’t take them, I don’t want to be with them anymore. They’re mean to me. You might even say I want to leave, I want someone else. But because it’s a constant swing of up and down. it keeps you in a confused state. And I believe from the research am doing, and my sources, that’s exactly what’s going on between Justin and Hailey.

I believe that this is Justin’s personality. I believe that he treated Selena the same way. It’s almost like when the persons good they’re so extremely loving and caring. But when the person is bad, they’re horribly disgusting. And this can drive you to be so confused, as well as you don’t know if you should leave them or not because when their good they’re amazingly good. But when they’re bad they can be horribly bad, and you are so confused you don’t know if they are good or bad. So most likely in many relationships we end up staying longer than we should because of the good. For some reason we want to believe in the good.

I’m not here to bash Justin, Hailey, or Selena. I’m just explaining what a yo-yo relationship is, and why people stay. This is not just for this trio. This is for anyone in a relationship that sounds like what I just explained. It’s unhealthy and if you don’t put a stop to it, it just continues. And this is what we are seeing is two people which is Justin and Hailey in a cycle of I love you, I love you not. Yes there are things that have Justin stuck in this relationship. As well as the witchcraft, the manipulation, the substance-abuse, and a person who doesn’t or may be afraid to be alone. Stays!

A yo-yo relationship in the long run is very unhealthy and most definitely comes to an end. It’s a form of abuse and it can make it a person depressed. Which I truly believe from what I hear and what I see that both Justin and Hailey are depressed. I’m not there, Dr, so I’m only going by what I hear from my sources and what I see. And I’ve seen over five years now of chaos and not in a good way. And because Justin doesn’t want to let go of Selena and Selena doesn’t want to let go of Justin. It makes this marriage a trio which is a whole other topic.

So how do you get out of a yo-yo relationship? And should you get out of a yo-yo relationship? All I can say is that if you’re not happy in any relationship that is an unhealthy relationship and in the long run will bring you much heartache if it isn’t already. So how do you stop this up-and-down relationship? It might be a good thing to see a therapist. But then seeing a therapist, you have to be really truly willing to change. the most importantly, you have to truly love the person you’re with that you’re willing and wanting to change. Saying to yourself that you don’t want to be alone or being in denial that this person does really love me. You really got to step out of the relationship with a clear mind and put your thoughts together. Next look at your relationship and ask yourself does this person truly love me? Am I happy with this person? Does this person make me happy?

I am sure that you’ve heard this 1 million times but I bet you haven’t done it and if you’ve done it it doesn’t last very long. But I’m gonna give you a little homework for those in the situation. Write a list of all the good that this person does, you’re with, that you love. Write a list of all the bad things that this person does. Then I want you to read the list. What side is longer? The happier side? The more miserable side? Fold this paper now and keep it with you and when you’re feeling unsure I want you to take this paper out and look at this list. If you have to add to the list all means add to the list. But look at this list frequently because within this list you have your answers.

You only have one life you don’t want to live your life miserable for any reason. I wrote this awesome article that was published. It was called, “are you living or simply existing” I think it was. It was one of my favorite articles that I’m going to pull it up and post it.

Do I hear from my sources that Hailey and Justin are deeply in love? I hate to say this, but my answer is no. I do think they have a commitment to each other and that’s why they stay together. And I do think that the yo-yo relationship that they have contributes to their commitment and staying. But does that mean that they have a healthy relationship? Or is it if they’re afraid to move on? Justin because he’s afraid to be alone, and I believe from what I hear that Hailey doesn’t want to look like the loser to Selena. But if Justin and Hailey both are unhappy, they both are alone and losing.

MUCH LOVE ♥️