The Trio in Confusion🤷🏻‍♀️

People keep asking over and over exactly why does Justin look happier, as well as why did he say…Where’s my baby girl the other day as they were walking? They don’t understand why or how Justin can come out looking a little bit happier, a little bit more bubbly, And definitely playing it up for the cameras. Do you see there’s been many more cameras lately with Justin hamming it up. And Hailey seems to be taking the quiet route this time around. So why the change?

Sources says that Justin realizes that his popularity is dropping, and although he acts like he doesn’t care, he cares, extremely! Especially when his new music is going to drop sometime in the near future. Sources say that he’s waiting for his popularity to increase from the negativities that he’s been getting all around. Don’t get me wrong he still absolutely adored by many. But between him, not taking care of himself, looking like he’s always under the influence of some thing and looking miserable with his wife his popularity seems to have dropped. Justin wants to feel secure with his fame to be able to sell his album and of course he’s hoping to get some more number ones. He’s afraid by the backlash he’s been getting lately that his music and himself won’t be as welcomed as he usually is to people.

So where Hailey was the one always calling an agency most of the time it would be backgrid, to stage them, looking happy and in love. But Justin did such a amazing job of acting miserable, will he be able to keep up the charade? When they go out, it’s as if they’re taking a little mini photo shoot. But it always tended to be a flop. So now it seems like Justin is smiling a bit more and Hailey has the boo-boo face on. So what’s going on? With this couple, trio? I’ve never seen a couple looking like they’re falling in and out of love as much as these two. But why? Is it because there’s the third person that’s never left this relationship or was it the third person was the main character in the scenario, but the understudy somehow took the main characters role and messed everything up. But what I hear what you see for the cameras is not exactly what’s going on behind closed doors.

Back to what I was saying… It wasn’t messed up for the understudy, but it seem to make things way out of whack for the two main characters. And I’m hoping you know who are the main characters. For those who don’t that would be Justin and Selena. I put up several post this week And I would like to explain them. It seems that Selena’s friends have come to her side to uplift her, but why? Well, I heard from a very good source was there was no mistake. Was Selena putting on her song, Justin putting on his video with Sza, as well as all the codes that Selena left in her single soon video. Because, from what I heard, she may have had the idea that Justin was coming back her way. Oh, but we all know that it wasn’t going to be that easy.

So there was a big choice to be made, stay and promote your album, because it would look very messy to drop an album while you’re going through a divorce. So here Justin comes with a new wedding band and a big smile and his baby girl by his side. But now she seems to be with the boo-boo face these days. So why was it just a few weeks ago for the longest time they would have to call the agency maybe one maybe two photographers will come out. And all you hear is a simple click, a couple clicks. But all of a sudden this past week so there’s clicking all around, paparazzi’s all on top of them. Even Hailey has people asking her to take a picture with her. But it’s an illusion. I was at the Wendy Williams, when Justin first came out, and nobody knew who he was, nobody wanted him on the show. But Wendy Williams was nice enough and said OK I’ll have Justin on my show, but the problem is is that nobody knew who he was. So no girls showed up to scream at him, so she had to have her team go rally up a bunch of young girls. Sure you’ve heard this before and he kicked and spit on her staff. Yes he was young but he was a little rebellious boy., and some things don’t seem to change. I was supposed to get some words with him, but after what I saw I opted out.

People, so many people have asked, is what they’re showing real, PR, or is Justin confused? So I looked into it and I found out that it’s probably all 3. He did not have some kind of epiphany and all of a sudden to grow this undying love for Hailey, sadly. But I hear he doesn’t want to be alone. He like that she’s there when he’s done taking his time out away from her. I do think that’s sad. But I do think Justin’s also confused. He has a person he’s deeply in love with and he has someone who he is committed to as well as loyal. Until he figures out what he’s heart truly wants, there’s going to be this trio.

I do want to add that I know that Selena says she’s happy with where’s she’s at. She’s grown into a beautiful woman, who is very respected in the industry. But I do think she feels as if she has unfinished business. And she does. She had the man who asked her to marry her pretty much ripped out of her life. If it was done by his doing I would let this be. But from so many sources I have heard, he was under the influence of recreational medication, and shouldn’t of signed anything. Especially not a marriage certificate. And how they did it is what is so upsetting to me. To manipulate Justin into this life, instead of helping him to clean up and get himself together. So that he could make his own decision of who he wanted to be with. Ki and I do hours and hours of research to find out the truth and it’s f hard.

If anyone wants to know why Ki and I are a bit hard on Hailey is because from what we’ve learned is that they took that right away from Justin when he was sick. But as a relationship counselor I do know people in love do crazy things. I don’t want to pick on anyone I just want to tell you the information that we find to be true and accurate. And I can’t stress enough how many hours a day we put into doing this. People actually ask and want the truth to come out for some reason people think their story needs to be told. The true story. I believe that they all have their niche in this world and we don’t all do the right thing all the time. But messing with the fate is messing with Gods work. And in the end I hope things come out exactly how they should be.

Power Couple? Really? Pt 1

Justin and Hailey have been trying to become a power couple since the day they got married. The problem was nobody knew who Hailey really was. Now, don’t go all crazy. I’m not saying, by any means, she didn’t have some sort of following. I’m just saying that she didn’t bloom till she was married to Justin and that’s a fact. They thought that Selena and Justin were going to be the power couple, but Selena wasn’t really feeling what Justin’s camp wanted of them. So Selena already had dipped out bringing Justin with her. As I said before they didn’t like that so Plan B came into action. Plan B was Hailey. And she was absolutely thrilled to be second choice.

Most people wouldn’t be exactly thrilled. But when you’re looking for the fame and the money, and being with the superstar, and there is a pretty cute boy., that definitely helps. She already had a tremendous infatuation with Justin, and Selena. Let’s not get off track because I’m going to try to keep this rather short. So you have a couple and one of them is very much on board to be a power couple. Well, the other one really couldn't give a crap. And I am guessing you know which one is which. But the problem is one bailed on his tour, and hasn’t been looking well in the public’s eye. Of course, we wish Justin the best. He just hasn’t really done much to win the popularity of his fans lately.

Ki, who works really close to me, is fabulous in helping me do research, and just finding little tidbits to add to the information that I get from my sources. I have to say she’s been absolutely 💯 fabulous. She has actually seen comments, where people were still asking if they were going to get their money back from the ticket that they purchased from the tour that Justin had canceled. As I said before, he never apologized, he never addressed the situation. I have medical issues as well as lupus where I get IV I G infusions monthly, and I still would have a moment to apologize to my fans who I left, completely stranded and hanging.

But Justin feels that he doesn’t owe anybody anything. He feels that he performed for them and that’s what his fans paid for nothing else. He doesn’t realize that the fans and the people who are still rooting for this man are the ones that keep him relevant. Relevant is what Justin and Hailey are striving for right now because Justin is going to release music and he’s actually a little nervous about how his music is going to be received. Before he really showed everybody that he really didn’t give a shit about his fans, because I honestly think he didn’t care. I think he became a bit cocky honestly. For goodness sake, he puts himself on the level of Michael Jackson. Michael Jackson had his own style of dancing, and his own way of singing, he didn’t even need a choreographer. He just did his own thing, while his brothers were behind him doing the moves that the choreographer had made. One of the things that Michael Jackson also didn’t need… was a swag coach. Because Michael Jackson, well he had his own swag going on. But let’s keep it going.

I want to keep this very short, but when you’re in the spotlight, it’s very hard to always do the right thing. But many people are just good people and do the right thing. They don’t just do the right thing when they have an agency following them around to make them look like a good person or look like they’re in love or on a day-long walk like they’re a power couple. Because if they truly are a power couple like Beyoncé and Jay-Z, they don’t flaunt their business. In fact, Beyoncé wanted to keep her life very private for the longest time, and did. If you come out, all of a sudden trying to look like you’re a husband in love he treats his wife with such joy and happiness meanwhile, you’ve looked miserable most of your five years of marriage people won't buy it. Regardless, you have an agenda so you need to call an agency to make you look like a good person.

You have to remember something, especially in today’s society, and social media. Someone’s always there to see, to film, and to click away and snap a picture. And that tells the truth. Justin has a pap on him, and the photographer did not capture one picture of Justin giving the homeless man money. If I was blessed enough to have way more than I needed, I could surely give the man more than five dollars. So for Backgrid to say, Justin was so generous to give the homeless man five dollars he should be ashamed of himself. Backgrid only says exactly what you want them to say, and what you want people to see. They’re just the middleman. Everything is set up prior to them posting.

So wherever that homeless man is today I hope and I’m sure that God is watching out for him. And I hope that there are better people out there that would spare him the five dollars. Or even more. Because the truth of the matter is, Justin did not give him five dollars, not a penny. And I find that truly sad.

Much love ♥️

The Biebers Yo Yo Relationship! (Many of us have it)

Has many people know I start it off writing relationship articles way back in 2009. I start it off on Instagram reaching about 75 million followers. At that time that was actually pretty substantial. But getting burnt out doing it alone especially I let it fall and let my numbers dwindle. For some reason this year I felt a whole new burst of energy to start back my Instagram page. Wow. It was a whole new kingdom. I mean you didn’t even need to have a degree to talk about what you want to talk about. You could say whatever you wanted just like you are a professional. And photoshopping was on the whole different level. Yet I still feel the interest to get back on to put in my thoughts about relationships. I was doing pretty well and I have been watching TikTok throughout the pandemic not thinking that maybe I should join in because people could probably use some relationships advice during the pandemic.

It wasn’t till the beginning of this year I believe that I just felt the urge to bring my work back online. That’s when I had the opportunity to shift gears a little bit and find out information about this trio, which is Justin, Hailey and Selena. I knew what was going on throughout the years, but diving deep and really see what was going on is when I realize how crazy this trio situation really is. It seems to loop and loop around and around. But there is a follower of mine out there that asked if I would write an article about a yo-yo relationship. And although I know, I have written several articles that were published about a yo-yo relationship. I don’t have the time to go sorting through to find them.

So what I thought I would do would be to combine this trio because they certainly do have a yo-yo relationship and explain how many people are living with a yo yo relationship. So for those who don’t know what a yo-yo relationship is, let me explain. It’s basically when you’re in a relationship where you’re feeling as they love me, they love me not. It could also be, I love them, I love them not. It can also be, to the point where you might even say, I hate you, I love you. And that’s where I believe Mr. and Mrs. Bieber are at.

Why do I think so? First off you see their faces. First it was Justin who always had an angry boo-boo face on. And more recently you see Hailey with an angry boo-boo face. Secondly, we all know that Justin needs his time out without Hailey, and Hailey has excepted this behavior. We have heard and seen of things Justin has done to Hailey that haven’t been so nice. Slamming the car door on her, skating away from her so quickly without a care where the poor girl fell. Telling her on a live not to touch him. These are just a couple of examples that would make a person question their love as well as question if the person they are with loves them.

So when this person is nice, you think to yourself, I love them. Yeah, they’re sweet. I want to be with them forever, maybe even have a baby with them. And let me say this goes both ways for Justin and Hailey or any relationship. Then there’s the time that they’re brutally mean, and you say to yourself, I can’t take them, I don’t want to be with them anymore. They’re mean to me. You might even say I want to leave, I want someone else. But because it’s a constant swing of up and down. it keeps you in a confused state. And I believe from the research am doing, and my sources, that’s exactly what’s going on between Justin and Hailey.

I believe that this is Justin’s personality. I believe that he treated Selena the same way. It’s almost like when the persons good they’re so extremely loving and caring. But when the person is bad, they’re horribly disgusting. And this can drive you to be so confused, as well as you don’t know if you should leave them or not because when their good they’re amazingly good. But when they’re bad they can be horribly bad, and you are so confused you don’t know if they are good or bad. So most likely in many relationships we end up staying longer than we should because of the good. For some reason we want to believe in the good.

I’m not here to bash Justin, Hailey, or Selena. I’m just explaining what a yo-yo relationship is, and why people stay. This is not just for this trio. This is for anyone in a relationship that sounds like what I just explained. It’s unhealthy and if you don’t put a stop to it, it just continues. And this is what we are seeing is two people which is Justin and Hailey in a cycle of I love you, I love you not. Yes there are things that have Justin stuck in this relationship. As well as the witchcraft, the manipulation, the substance-abuse, and a person who doesn’t or may be afraid to be alone. Stays!

A yo-yo relationship in the long run is very unhealthy and most definitely comes to an end. It’s a form of abuse and it can make it a person depressed. Which I truly believe from what I hear and what I see that both Justin and Hailey are depressed. I’m not there, Dr, so I’m only going by what I hear from my sources and what I see. And I’ve seen over five years now of chaos and not in a good way. And because Justin doesn’t want to let go of Selena and Selena doesn’t want to let go of Justin. It makes this marriage a trio which is a whole other topic.

So how do you get out of a yo-yo relationship? And should you get out of a yo-yo relationship? All I can say is that if you’re not happy in any relationship that is an unhealthy relationship and in the long run will bring you much heartache if it isn’t already. So how do you stop this up-and-down relationship? It might be a good thing to see a therapist. But then seeing a therapist, you have to be really truly willing to change. the most importantly, you have to truly love the person you’re with that you’re willing and wanting to change. Saying to yourself that you don’t want to be alone or being in denial that this person does really love me. You really got to step out of the relationship with a clear mind and put your thoughts together. Next look at your relationship and ask yourself does this person truly love me? Am I happy with this person? Does this person make me happy?

I am sure that you’ve heard this 1 million times but I bet you haven’t done it and if you’ve done it it doesn’t last very long. But I’m gonna give you a little homework for those in the situation. Write a list of all the good that this person does, you’re with, that you love. Write a list of all the bad things that this person does. Then I want you to read the list. What side is longer? The happier side? The more miserable side? Fold this paper now and keep it with you and when you’re feeling unsure I want you to take this paper out and look at this list. If you have to add to the list all means add to the list. But look at this list frequently because within this list you have your answers.

You only have one life you don’t want to live your life miserable for any reason. I wrote this awesome article that was published. It was called, “are you living or simply existing” I think it was. It was one of my favorite articles that I’m going to pull it up and post it.

Do I hear from my sources that Hailey and Justin are deeply in love? I hate to say this, but my answer is no. I do think they have a commitment to each other and that’s why they stay together. And I do think that the yo-yo relationship that they have contributes to their commitment and staying. But does that mean that they have a healthy relationship? Or is it if they’re afraid to move on? Justin because he’s afraid to be alone, and I believe from what I hear that Hailey doesn’t want to look like the loser to Selena. But if Justin and Hailey both are unhappy, they both are alone and losing.

MUCH LOVE ♥️

Body Language Says it All

I know a lot of influencers are feeling that talking about Justin and Hailey, or Justin, Hailey and Selena is repetitive. Well, that is because it is. Looking into it as I said before there’s a pattern and this pattern seems to be one huge cycle that just repeats itself. But looking into it and talking to my sources, I find that Justin is how can I explain this? Justin is living in a fog. A little bit of medication, a little bit of ritual work, as well as this is Justin‘s personality.

Although I think from what I’ve heard that he does love, Hailey. Not in the way he loves Selena, but he loves her enough to not be ready to let go. So this is the cycle… Justin spends time with Hailey and for the longest time he’s been miserable. And we have absolutely seen this in almost every video and picture that’s been out in the last couple years. Recently, he came out with a whole new attitude as I said before when he had his pep talk to stay in his marriage with the people from the church that he respects enough to do what they ask. And what did they ask of Justin? To give Hailey the opportunity that he really never gave her.

But what’s weird is that Justin can’t commit to Hailey. Who knows if Justin can commit to one woman no matter who she is. I mean no matter if you like Selena or not, he couldn’t be faithful to her. He doesn’t seem able to be faithful with Hailey. Who says that if he was to go back to Selena he would he be able to just be with her? Or would he still have the need to cheat? But I have to say the way Justin has treated Hailey is a bit worse than he treated Selena.

He always seem to embrace Selena. He always grabbed her hand, and couldn’t stop kissing her face. He was always very protective and affectionate with her. And although there are things he did that he knows were wrong and he’s not proud of himself. But the way he treated Selena was far better than the way he treats Hailey. But I do think that Justin and Hailey at this current moment are trying to reconnect to see if they can have a better marriage. Even if he’s miserable, he’s actually putting in somewhat of an effort.

I personally don’t think that in the long run it’s going to work, unless Hailey is willing to have a baby. I did hear when Justin was on his way out for good, she said that she would have a baby. Justin, wanting to be a father, so desperately that he clung onto that hope. But honestly if I were him, I would be going to those doctors appointments. Why? Because I can see Hailey telling Justin that she can’t get pregnant so that they would need a surrogate. And not because somethings wrong with her that she can’t have a baby, but because she doesn’t want to have a baby.

I do think that Hailey does everything and anything she has to do to keep this man. So in psychology, we learn about body language. So I would like to do body language analysis, on Justin and Hailey before and now. And then let’s to Justin and Selena early on, and right before they broke up. Let’s see the difference of how Justin treated the two women that he loved in his life. I mean he asked both of them to marry him. It was in a two month span of time. So let’s see, if we can see the difference. And if there is a difference. I bet this will answer a lot of questions. Because body language never lies. It doesn’t lie to the person as in this case it would be Hailey. She can feel how Justin feels about her by his body language. As well as Selena could feel as well. I do think this will explain a lot.

I know that a lot of people put out the versions of them being happy. But in psychology, we learned so much about body language. The tilt of the head, the position of the body, there’s just so much to analyze about a couples body language. It can actually tell you, if this is love. So let’s dive in and see what we can learn. And I like to see what you think about the body language.

For all the members that did the zoom question and answers meet and greet, Ki and I had a blast. Hope to do another this coming week, or weekend. I think that we’re all having so much fun. I hope that we keep enjoying and continue growing. As always much love.♥️

Baby Makes Three? 🤷🏻‍♀️

I don’t know how many times since I started posting about this trio has Hailey been in the news for being pregnant? The last time she even joked about it for almost a full month. Hiding her tummy, holding her tummy, even getting herself in a frenzy of how she was going to get out of keeping everybody on her every last move wondering if she was pregnant or not. Then she almost didn’t know how to get out of this mess she created.

While everybody seem to be going, along with a goofiness of her being pregnant, I just has to research, went to my sources and found out. She was absolutely not pregnant. So let’s go back to the beginning of Justin and Hailey’s union. They got engaged May of 2018, married in September 2018 with the hopes of starting a family immediately. And this is one of the main reasons that just pisses me off. To allow a man to think you were going to have his baby, we’re talking immediately. Then to get to the altar when this man should be in rehab, but this group of people joined together to get Justin to sign on that doted line, that said I Do.

Granted, Justin needed to get off of his substances that he was taking. Been there and sadly I lost a baby. I was in college and partying. I was very young though. I had just turned 18, and got pregnant. We decided to get married and raise this baby going to college 😳 but because of the substances that we had been taking it affected the baby tremendously. Even though I completely stopped the damage was done. I went into labor when I was six months pregnant, I was in an induced coma for two weeks after I delivered with an emergency C-section. We lost the baby after the first week. I didn’t even get to see him 😥 My point is, they like to party and are not ready for a baby.

But what pisses me off is that Selena was offered the same proposal, and she knew that Justin needed to get clean, as well as work on their relationship with the therapist before walking down the aisle. But they were doing these things, and Hailey and her mom and dad knew this. But as soon as Selena wasn’t rocking with the church, they wanted her out and Hailey in. But one thing I have to point out Justin did get cleaned up and stopped the drugs to be able to have a healthy baby. But it was Hailey who wasn’t ready and wanted to do things with her life before having the child. But if you’re not ready to have a baby, why say you would, and you’re willing and you’re ready. And then walk down the aisle say I Do, and change your tune completely.

I guess I’m writing this because I find from my sources that Justin wants to be a dad more than anything. As well as my sources say that he would stop partying if he was to become a father. And it depresses him extremely because he thought that he would be a father by now. I feel like we loop and loop these articles over and over. But the people that did this to him, they got him into this mess has not taken accountability. And I believe Justin stays stuck for several reasons. And what could these reasons be could be? They are the things that Justin has done like I said, in the last article that there’s video, pictures, and a huge secret that stays closed while he’s married. But can be exposed if he was to leave. So he’s stuck. And Justin is so ready to move on. He has been cheating on Hailey his entire marriage. But why does he pick Selena look a likes? Is it because he’s so in love with Selena? Or could it also be that it pisses Hailey the fuck off. And believe it or not Justin does whatever he can to make Hailey miserable so that she will leave and divorce him.

But nothing Justin seems to do will make Hailey leave and divorce Justin. And believe me he has tried. If wearing that outfit to her Krispy Kreme launch, with a pink hat on top like he was a cupcake. If that doesn’t show that he wanted to embarrass her, think of all the times she dressed up stunningly, and here comes Justin wearing a goofy old outfit. Like he rolled out of bed. But lately he’s been putting in more of an effort, why? So it was said that Hailey was Justin’s handler for a long time to keep him on the straight and narrow. Which we all know she’s horrible at because she was supposed to supervisor her cousin Ireland years ago because she was an addict. I do want to point out she went to rehab and went on to have a family, so I applaud her immensely. But Hailey the good Christian girl got her self addicted. So maybe she’s not the best person to handle Justin because we know that he likes to dip into his partying activities.

So who did they bring in to be the new handler for Justin? Ryan, good? That would be a good bet. And not only is he his right hand man, he did his job into getting Justin to stay with Hailey when she returned from Paris. My question is why does a 29 year old man need a handler? I mean yes the guy likes to party but that doesn’t give a reason that he would need a handler to keep him in line. Or is he a handler to keep him away from Selena?

But this time I think the whole charade, went a little too far. Selena came out with her new single with all codes on the wall, and throughout the video in tune, with what was going to happen past present and future, and it was all about Justin and Hailey. Justin came out with the song Moment’s as well put out the video with SZA. Coincidence absolutely not. So where does that leave Selena once again? Well, I would hope it would finally be in the arms of another man. Because she purposely went on the radio station to state that she has been single for five years, over five years really. To let Justin know that she hasn’t been with anybody. But why would she care, why would he care? Unless things are going on under the radar. Or maybe things aren’t under the radar at the Bieber household. Just under the radar to the public. Oh and baby makes three, not what I hear! Sorry to say for Justin 😢

We dive deep into answering all these questions for our members. We have a fun time tonight. We’re doing a zoom group tonight. Where you can ask me any question you would like. We do games, trivia, and so much more. It would be nice to have you check us out for a month you might be pleasantly surprised how much you really would enjoy yourself. Until the next article sending much love.♥️