I STARTED THIS ARTICLE YESTERDAY BEFORE HER SITUATION; let’s leave it there! Recently, Selena Gomez, DM me on Instagram I didn’t re-post it on any social media besides to my members. She’s been branded herself as being single. I think by what she wrote she was embarrassed that she did that to herself. That she hasn’t dated anyone in 5 years. What she thought was a funny joke, doesn’t seem to be so funny anymore. That people weren’t sympathizing with her any longer, but we’re now thinking she was branding herself as single and solo. Which is fine if that’s what you choose. She even stated that in two different interviews this past September. But from her DM, I believe it bothered her. And this is where I believe the chaos started. And it seemed to come to a head last night. Where Selena seemed to become a bit unhinged. Which is always sad!

This original article was supposed to be about this….To congratulate her on her Pete Born Impact award. I think that she has accomplished incredible achievements in the last couple years. What’s crazy is that Selena is working her ass off with Lupus and other auto immune diseases. And we can’t forget the major disability, of having a kidney transplant.

Having lupus and other auto immune diseases, I can say that it definitely alters my life and makes work a bit more challenging. I myself go for IVIG infusions every month to help with my auto immune and Lupus. So for those that are hard on her for gaining weight, looking, puffy, her face changing, and any other negative comments thrown her way, you have to walk in her shoes to understand.

Yes, she put herself out there because of her status. Yes, she puts herself on her social media accounts and a lot of people comment both positive and negative. But we got to remember that these people still have the same feelings that an ordinary person would have. An ordinary woman would have. I’m not saying any woman it’s just ordinary we are all unique and have awesomeness in us. Buy if she wouldn’t put herself on display with unstable bullshit. Maybe she wouldn’t get that constant negativity of people knocking her self-esteem down.

Selena, accomplishments, runs long, and many people might not realize all of her accomplishments since her Disney days. Let’s start with her shows only murders in the building, Selena + chef, as well as making several movies. We also can’t forget she’s the owner of serendipity ice cream. She’s part owner of the serendipity restaurants in New York City. She’s co-owner of the Gopuff company. She owns July moon, production company and we can’t forget a huge one which is rare beauty. So the girl is doing rather well for herself. But what the heck happened yesterday on Instagram? I think it left many people confused and shaking their heads.

Once again, we have major publications stating what she said, and picking comments that were positive to boost her relationship with Benny Blanco. Ki and I already posted that she was very close and good friends with Benny but they were not in a relationship. The publications didn’t even do research and had information wrong. That’s a whole other subject. I did look into the ring that she says came from Benny and I got from two different sources that it would be a big no…it did not come from him. I’m not going to get into much of the details that will be for members only. But this does leave Benny in a sensitive situation.

If you’re wondering why, because Selena status is higher than Benny’s and this means that Benny might get sucked into a PR contract. Justin has said this before, I’ve said this before, as well as my sources that Selena always hooks up with somebody before her album drops. And her album is supposed to be dropping in February. For some reason since Sunday, she has lost over 1 million followers. She went from 230 million, to 229 million. But she is still the most beloved person on Instagram. And she’s definitely is a America Sweetheart. I don’t understand why people seem to be becoming negative towards her. No reason for any hate. She didn’t do anything to summons any negativity, that I know of. But?

People have written me, stating that she seems in the last month or so, to be irrational, and acting a bit, not like her self. Let’s just leave it there. I honestly didn’t pay much attention, although. Ki and other people were saying that she was writing on different peoples post. Which I thought was a bit strange. But apparently I know she’s done this a lot in the past. So here we have her stepping out last night in New, York City sporting her ring, but before her night out on the town she was on Instagram for several hours, fighting or disputing with many people. The amount of comments she was responding to was just absolutely ridiculous. But she needs to do her and do what makes her feel better.

I do think that I’ve never seen another a Lister on social media disputing their life with back-and-forth comments. Maybe Britney Spears. I don’t know. All I can say is that I hope Selena finds whatever it is, and whoever it is that she wants to be with. And girl you don’t need to fight that you’re with Benny Blanco and you don’t need to fight if he’s good looking or not. Because all that is in the eyes of the beholder, and that would be you. For now I’m going to leave it as I hope that she’s surrounded by loving people. I’m sure she is and that they take her phone and her laptop away for a moment just so she could regroup. And if you say that you’re single for the last five years and haven’t dated in five years and then come out and say you been with Benny for six months it’s just a little all over the place. And Benny come help your girl out just give her a little support if she really is your girl. That’s just a thought. As always much love.♥️🙏🏼

PS: I can’t help to wonder if Justin still has a little to do with this? ❤️‍🩹 Although Justin and Hailey have been very chill. Maybe Justin saying and acting like he was miserable and leaving his marriage…and now it seems more peaceful at the Bieber’s it’s hitting her? I don’t know, but we wish her the best!