When do you know you have found the right person? I probably would say when you can totally be

yourself. Yes you want to look nice, be well mannered, but most important you want to be who you are. It is safe to say who you are with is the same person a week from now, who you will be a month from now, and so on. When you can laugh and enjoy the person and not think you have to put up a front, this is a good start. If you feel you have to say all these little lies, this is not good. You should be you, the person your family sees, your friends see. Now if you both can get in sync with this method, and you are accepting and liking each other for whom you are, thing are on the right path. A healthy relationship is a couple who can laugh, be goofy, and not judge one another. Chemistry and looks are important but it is how they make you feel that takes it over the top. You can have someone that is handsome or hot and it’s important but it’s even better that they are just as beautiful on the inside as well. You have to take time to get to know the real person and eventually you well and sometime it’s too late. You have fallen for a person who becomes someone that you did not meet but that is the chance you must take for love. Sorry to say more so if you are already married with kids. Take time and say to yourself, does this person make me feel comfortable, does this person seem like they truly care for me and last would this person be here by your side when you need, if the answer is yes, this is a great beginning and a person worth continuing a future with. If your answer is no, keep looking. Barbara Jeanne xo